The frequency of cases of different types is not connected with their frequency in reality. More problematical experiences will be usually overrepresented.
The aim of such a collection of experiences is to show the different possibilities for pedosexual relation more detailed. Moral judgement about it is not part of this file.
A man saying about himself: "A paedophile very consciously
restrict his sexual expressions to a form which children find
attractive: masturbating, fondling, caressing, stroking, The
paedophile has quite knowingly not developed into a fucking being - or
at least I didn't. There is no need for this. I experience my sexual
satisfaction just as a child does, and I continued so doing after I
became an adult."
A man says about his 12-year-old boy-friend, "He likes very
much to be caressed or sucked. I don't think it's so important that
he's not active. For me maybe the most important thing is that he
likes what I'm doing to him. I can have a climax just by sucking him,
I'm excited because he likes it so much.
One of Leonetti's subjects says, "For me it is enough to
caress a boy, to see his pleasure. (...) My own chief sexual pleasure
consists of seeing how the boy has his orgasm"
Frans (37 years old) said about his boy-friend Harrie (13)
whom he had already known for several years, "He doesn't masturbate
me, and for me that isn't really very important. Others tell me it is
so wonderful to be sucked. Yes, I, too, like to be sucked, and I can
remember several times when I was. But that doesn't seem to be the
most important thing. Maybe the reason is that I'm used to... well I
won't be hypocritical and talk about preferring to give rather than
receive - of course, I like to receive, too - but the question is not
whether you want to get more: it's a question of giving: to give
something and to receive something else in return which is for me of
equal importance. Maybe more important for me than being sucked is
that I get in return a boy loving to be caressed or sucked. I can have
an orgasm simply by sucking a boy. I am excited by the other's
pleasure.
A homophile subject in Hite's investigation described his
sexual preferences in the following manner: "I luxuriate in long slow
periods of arousal for my sake and in order to please my partner as
much as possible. I must admit that I get a great kick out of watching
my partners as they experience the feelings going through their body.
Of all the parts of having sex, my favorite is watching, savoring, and
sharing the pleasure of my partner. This visual and auditory
stimulation is for me the most exciting and arousing thing.