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Is It Premature Sexualization?

From this point of view, childhood should be a time without the problems related with sex. The other side of this argument are the consideration of "premature sexual behavior" as a harm which may be caused by sexual abuse.

This argument idealizes the childhood as nonsexual, and, on the other hand, considers sexuality as something problematical, dirty, or bad.

from Finkelhor 1984, p.15

A second argument rejects adult-child sexuality because it entails a premature sexualization of the child. From this point of view, childhood should be a time of relative immunity from sex, where a child enjoys freedom from an often problematic aspect of life. When adults approach children sexually, they draw them into a world for which children are not yet ready. Unfortunately for this argument, children are sexual. Most children are curious about sex. Many explore sexuality with one another. There is increasing professional and scientific agreement that sexual interest and activity among children is healthy and perhaps even salutary to later sexual functioning (Yates, 1978). This argument seems inadequate also.