Covert incest also known as emotional incest, psychic incest or parentification is a highly questionable psychiatric concept from the 1980s and 90s, still used as a grift by therapists - many of them anti-incest feminists and Jungians/Psychotherapists. The covert incest paradigm essentially pathologizes and sexualizes both functional and dysfunctional aspects of family life, and has been criticized as an attempt to reify novel forms of "abuse", unduly expanding the definition of Child Sexual Abuse.
In concept, covert incest is abuse in which a parent looks to their child for the emotional support that would normally be provided by another adult. While the activities involved are not sexual, the effects of covert incest on children when they become adults are said to mimic actual incest, although sometimes to a lesser degree. Psychotherapist Roni Weisberg-Ross has noted that the term may not be particularly useful, since it can lead to attributing nearly any possible dysfunctional relationship or problem, becoming "a catchall, watered-down diagnosis". Ross also criticizes the term for its emphasis on children meeting parents' "unmet needs", noting that children often meet the emotional or other needs of parents, with relationship boundaries frequently blurring and no definition of when this leads to permanent damage or harm. In the case of "parentification" scholars now also claim that the phenomenon can be "adaptive" in order to explain diversity among behaviors they have arbitrarily pathologized.
- The Fiction of Covert Incest - Medium.
- Covert incest - The Wikipedia article has not yet been touched by psychiatry skeptics. Various sources listed.
- Parentification - Modern sanitization of "covert/psychic incest". Similarly, the idea has been under-investigated by skeptics.
- Marion Woodman - Example of a scholar/pseudoscientist who promoted the concept.
- PsychCentral Explainer
- PT - Parentification
- Healthline pushing "Emotional Incest" therapy
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- Kaminer, Wendy (1993). I'm dysfunctional, you're dysfunctional: the recovery movement and other self-help fashions, New York: Vintage Books.
- Weisberg-Ross, Roni (January 1, 2012). "Covert/Emotional Incest - How Real Is It?". Ezine.