The Sexual Interest of the Pedophile
What does the pedophile want? Some information you can extract also
from the consideration of the really applied techniques.
Prof. van der Kwast, a Dutch psychiatrist, said it was wrong
to reproack a child-lover with confronting a child prematurely with
adult sexuality, for it is the adult who comes down to the level of
the child rather than vice versa. He believed psychistrists should
better be concerned about the infantilism of a man satisfying himself
with such incomplete activities.
wrote about boy-lovers: "The emphasis is upon giving
pleasure to the boy, perhaps to the exclusion of the tutor's own
Even the Michael Jackson case offered similar testimony, where
Jackson was accused of masturbating the boy and orally stimulating him,
but not of attacking, raping, penetrating, or in any other way being
physically overbearing or controlling.
My FAVORITE example was in the press documents over the Michael
Jackson case. One of the things Mr. Jackson was accused of was
"eating the little boy's semen." Now, I have two questions for you.
First, since when is a 13 year old a "little boy" unless it's
convenient for him to be so for public opinion. And two, since when
do "little boy's" produce semen?
orgasm by fondling
Pieterse investigated 11 adult men who had sex with small
boys, limited to kissing, fondling and masturbation. Seven of them
experienced orgasm while doing this to the child.
Society, in condemning and punishing, actually thwarts the non-sexual
aspects of man/boy love; by doing so it exaggerates sex even in the
boy-lover's mind, where it can take on an obsessional colouring it
never would in a more liberated setting.
For the people in her sample (N=60), 86% thought friendship
with a boy more important than having sex with him; only 11% thought
sex more important than friendship. Friendship without sex was
acceptable for 73%, while 19% thought it wasn't. If a boy refused
sexual intimacy, only 5% said they would break off the relationship,
while 81% said they certainly wouldn't and 14% were undecided.