Thanks for checking out my web site. If you are involved in an intergenerational relationship, or have the desire to be, then it is for you that I write these words. I have the good fortune to be so involved, and I find that in addition to filling a large hole for me intellectually and emotionally, my mentor encourages me to assume the leading role in my own education and development. Something about responsibilty and self-realization.

I am not ashamed of him, or what others may assume about us. We both feel that we are far above the fear, superstition, and animal instincts that rule the lives of our detractors. I make no attempt to re-educate the unwashed masses. My feeling for what they are doing to me is one of contempt, not concern.

In seeking out others who understand, I have encountered many wonderful folks who would be my mentors as well, were it not for the limits of cyberspace. What I want most is intellectual guidance, for I do not feel confusion or turmoil over the choices I have made for myself in life. The choices others have made for me are less comfortable, but as I move toward adulthood (kicking and screaming), I will try to free myself from the enslavement of externally-enforced ethics.

My purpose is to tell my story, explain my feelings, and explore the mentoring relationship from my perspective. If you are looking for hot stories of wild sex, I will have to dissappoint you. One of my first observations that I wish to make is that any sexual play that may occur is of minimal importance to most boys. Take it or leave it, no big deal. I wish to convey to you what I think are the big deals in this kind of relationship. Carefully and somewhat methodically over a period of time.

I have had a few other loved boys referred to me in the past, and I value these friendships especially. I am constantly bugging them about writing down their feelings and experiences, in order to punctuate mine here on the site. I have been reading BoyChat, either directly or through my mentor's clips, for a long time, and there are some very "together" folks there that I have tremendous respect for. There are also some adults there that I just want to reach out to and try to comfort, to convince them that there is more to life than lonliness and self-doubt. If you are not blessed with a situation that allows you to give complete trust to your partner, then make the best of what you have. Remember that 99% of any good relationship is quite legal.